1. Stupid performance
2. Stupid fantasies…I can make a man love me
3. False control…If I will do this, he will like me
4. Stupid fear
5. False responsibilities…It is me duty to keep him
6. Stupid attachment…I finally find someone I could attach to…prestige, pride, duty, colleague attachment etc.
7. Stupid devotion…he abuse, yet you said you love him. It is self-delusion, ultimate delusion. You don’t keep to him because you love him but because you hope he would accept you…
8. Stupid expectation: you don’t hope for happiness in marriage, you carry happiness into marriage.
9. Stupid Forgiveness: swallowing all bad pill hoping … with ...Held by false guilt
10. Dumb trust
11. Dumb judgement
12. Dumb objectivity
13. Dumb surrender
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